Chatting with girls is a very interesting thing, but why do the topics always end up being dead ends? Let’s analyze this issue below.

1. Lack of common interests and hobbies

If you and a girl do not have common interests and hobbies, then when chatting It's easy to get into an embarrassing situation. Since you don't have much to talk about, it can be difficult to keep the conversation coherent.

2. Pay too much attention to yourself

When chatting with a girl, if you just keep talking about yourself without understanding her thoughts and feelings, then she will soon You will lose interest. Therefore, when chatting, you should pay attention to balancing the proportion of topics between yourself and the other party.

3. Lack of depth of thinking

Some people just greet and chat briefly when chatting, but lack depth of thinking. Although this kind of chatting method can be maintained for a period of time, it is difficult for girls to generate real interest. Therefore, try to bring up some in-depth topics when chatting to make the other party feel that you are a thinking person.

4. Relying too much on superficial topics

Some people only talk about superficial topics when chatting with girls, such as the weather, gossip, etc. Although this kind of chatting method can be maintained for a period of time, it is difficult for girls to generate real interest. Therefore, try to bring up some in-depth topics when chatting to make the other party feel that you are a thinking person.

It is easy to end up chatting with girls. The main reasons are lack of common interests and hobbies, too much focus on oneself, lack of depth of thinking and too much reliance on superficial topics. Therefore, when chatting with girls, we should pay attention to balancing the proportion of topics between ourselves and the other party, try to bring up some in-depth topics, and understand the other party's thoughts and feelings. This will make the chat more interesting, coherent and meaningful.