Some girls always feel very cold to others. When chatting with boys, the boys may talk for a long time, but she will only reply with a simple "um" or "oh". Facing such a cold girl, most boys will feel very disappointed. So what are the chatting skills with aloof girls?

1. Keep yourself mysterious

Many people think When chasing a girl, you have to put your heart and soul into it, and when chatting with her, you can't stop talking. This approach is not wrong, just inappropriate. We should maintain our own sense of mystery appropriately to make the other party interested in you. The key to maintaining a sense of mystery is to practice Tai Chi, do not ask questions or answer questions directly, keep some of your own information, and do not tell the other party unreservedly about yourself. Otherwise, what else can she have to explore about you?

2. Don’t be too low-profile

Girls are all It's like this, the lower you lower your attitude and stick to her, the more aloof and cold she will be and the more she will ignore you. The correct attitude towards communication is to put two people in the same position. Don't reply to her message immediately, or even reply a little later. Wait for a while before replying. You can say sorry for being too busy. Only then will she understand that you will not support her all the time, and she will also understand that she is just an ordinary girl in front of you. She no longer has a sense of superiority and is naturally no longer aloof. Then continue to contact her as usual, and occasionally give her a little surprise, and you can catch her.

3. Selection of chat topics

The most common mistake in chatting is to chat with women about news, Current affairs, study, work. Some people always talk to girls about your work projects, your worries at work, excessive preaching, criticism, and complaints. Doing so will only prevent you from attracting them. When chatting with an aloof girl, it is better to talk about topics related to you and her, such as your life, experiences, and thoughts. The more things you have in common, the closer you will be to her, and the more she will enjoy spending time with you.

The key to pursuing a cool girl is to treat her as an ordinary girl and get along with her naturally. If you always put yourself in a lower position, then the less likely she will like you.