In the process of pursuing a girlfriend, chatting is a very important part. How to find the right topic so that the chat will not be awkward or boring? Here are some chatting skills for you.

1. Understand her interests and hobbies

When chatting, you can first understand your girlfriend's interests and hobbies, and then choose topics accordingly. For example, if she likes to travel, you can ask her where she likes to travel, and if she has any particularly unforgettable experiences, etc. If she likes watching movies, you can ask her which movies she has watched recently, whether there are any recommended movies, etc. This will not only help you get to know her better, but also make chatting more relaxed and enjoyable.

2. Chat about each other’s lives

In addition to understanding her interests and hobbies, you can also talk about some each other's lives. For example, you can share what happened to you recently, or ask her what's new recently. This can enhance the relationship between each other and make the chat more intimate.

3. Talk about future plans

In the process of pursuing your girlfriend, you can also appropriately talk about some future plans. For example, you can ask her what her plans are for the future, or share her own future plans. This will not only allow you to understand her thoughts better, but also bring you closer to each other.

4. Chat about common topics

If you and your girlfriend have some common topics, you can chat about these topics. For example, if you both like to watch a certain TV series, you can talk about the plot, characters, etc. of the TV series. This can not only enhance the relationship between each other, but also make chatting more enjoyable.

5. Tease appropriately

When chatting, it is okay to tease your girlfriend appropriately. . For example, you can joke that she has gained weight recently, or that she doesn't look good in clothes lately, etc. Of course, be careful when teasing and don't go too far.

6. Don’t talk about sensitive topics

When chatting, be sure to avoid talking about sensitive topics. For example, don't ask about her salary, family background, etc. This will make your girlfriend feel uncomfortable and may easily lead to arguments.

7. Express your emotions appropriately

It is also okay to express your emotions appropriately when chatting. For example, you can tell your girlfriend what you like about her, or say sweet words, etc. This can enhance the relationship between each other and make the chat more romantic.

The above are a few tips on how to chat with your girlfriend. I hope you can choose according to the situation of yourself and your girlfriend, making chatting more pleasant and relaxed.