In my opinion, love is a very beautiful thing. When I don’t have it, I will look forward to its arrival; when I have it, I will look forward to it getting better and better... This It also proves one thing, it can indeed bring us a lot of good things. Well, there are still some things about love that we don’t know, so today the editor is here to popularize science with you. Let’s take a look at this article “Things You Don’t Know About Love”!
Love has two components: needing you/wanting you to be good.
1. We always talk about the word love. I love TA very much, but if you look carefully, love actually has two meanings:
The first one, I love TA, I You can't live without him, you can't live without him. (This kind of description refers more to: I need him/her)
The second type is that I love him/her, I hope he/she is well, and I want to do something for him/her. (This description refers more to: I want him to be well)
2. I love you because I need you. (Need you)
Needing him/her may mean material, appearance, companionship, vanity, security, etc.
There is no shame in needing another person. We are connected to many people and satisfy each other's various needs.
It’s just that everyone’s needs change with time, environment, and growth.
To be able to become partners, or to have a relationship between two people, must satisfy part of each other's needs.
3. I need you because I love you. (I want you to be better)
To want another person to be happy, happy, and better from the bottom of my heart is not an exchange, but to want you to be good without asking for anything in return, like motherly love, like you want to take care of me Seeing a wild cat on the roadside is like your kindness at a certain moment.
4. Love is the fusion of two components
Sometimes I need him/her, sometimes I want to do something for him/her What.
When you are lacking (such as a sense of security), you need him/her; when you are rich, you want to do it for him/her.
The deeper the love, the deeper the need and the deeper the desire to be good to him/her.
5. How to love each other better?
Identify your own needs and satisfy them yourself, or sincerely invite the other person to satisfy them.
Understand that the other party sometimes does not have the ability or energy to meet their own needs.
Identify the other person’s needs and satisfy them when you have the energy.
It’s beautiful to cherish the moments when each other wants to do good for each other.
The above is all the content that the editor has brought to you today. I believe that after reading it, you will have a new understanding of love. I hope you can all have a long-term love, come on~!
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