Some men chase girls, and the girls treat them as their best friends, or they become their buddies. This result is obviously not the original intention of men to chase girls. They chase girls for the purpose of talking. Falling in love is not about being a best friend or a good brother, so what does it mean for a girl to treat you as a best friend?

What it means to reject you

When a girl treats you as her best friend, it basically means to draw a clear line with you, reject you, and not give you a chance. In this case, it may be that the girl does not want to develop a romantic relationship with you, but she is reluctant to let go of your current "good friend" status. This kind of girl generally does not know how to refuse, so she uses the excuse of "boyfriend" to deal with you. This is when you need to increase your firepower.

What does it mean to like you

A girl likes you, but cannot be with you for some reasons. That's why she treats you as a male best friend, but her feelings make her unwilling to keep distance from you, so she wants to keep in touch with you through the guise of "male best friend".

Reasons include but are not limited to - a girl likes you but she has a boyfriend, a girl likes you but you have a girlfriend, a girl likes you but is shy to say it.

The meaning of treating you as a spare tire

Although you perform well, you have not yet reached the level of a girl. Boyfriend standards, so she chose to keep you as a backup just in case. She will come to you when she needs a man's warmth, care, and protection.

A spare tire is always a spare tire. Many times it is just a girl’s emotional trash can. It is very likely that there will be no chance of becoming a regular employee in her life. If this possibility exists, how can a girl be willing to let you be a spare tire? ?So the male girlfriends here are synonymous with spare tires.

In summary, when a girl treats you as her best friend, your emotional state is basically ambiguous. Therefore, you must seize the opportunity and make appropriate adjustments to develop the relationship between you and the girl. Only by cultivating relationships and emotions and letting the love develop in the expected direction can you do whatever you want in the process of pursuing a girl. At this stage, it is necessary to think more and speculate more about the girl's psychology.