It is said that a man chases a woman, separated by a mountain; a woman chases a man, separated by a veil. Boys always encounter various problems when chasing girls. Even on a blind date, you may encounter a situation where the other person is lukewarm towards you. So do you want to pursue a blind date girl who is lukewarm?

1. Some people say that relationships are about fate. It is necessary to pester a girl who is lukewarm to you. We should find one that suits us and not be someone else’s spare tire. Otherwise, even if you get married, it means nothing if she doesn't love you. So there is no need to force yourself to be single if you can't find someone who likes you. Feelings are hard to come by, and you should give up when it’s time to give up.

2. Some people say that if you like her very much, then observe her carefully. After all, some girls are more reserved by nature and are embarrassed to take the initiative to contact boys. As long as you send a message and she replies, not in a perfunctory way, then you still have a chance. If when you come to see her, she will find various excuses to say she is busy, and you will basically be out of luck.

　3. Some people say that you like her, but it does not mean that she will accept you. But if you feel tired and don’t want to give in anymore, you can give up. But if you can't let go of the other person, then it's best to continue pursuing her, because feelings don't make sense. Only when you work hard to the end will you know whether it is worth it.

In fact, it is a normal phenomenon for a girl on a blind date to be neither cold nor hot. Unless you are handsome and rich, making girls fall in love with you at first sight. When a girl is lukewarm towards you, there are usually three reasons: 1. She is insufficient; 2. She has someone she likes; 3. She has something bothering her recently but doesn’t want to tell you.

So when a girl is lukewarm to you, but you still don’t want to give up, you must first look for your own shortcomings and actively change them. Then contact and enlighten girls more often, and let her know that you are someone she can rely on for life.