We often say that women tend to lack a sense of security. They like to check their boyfriend’s mobile phone, like to check on their boyfriends when they are socializing, and like to declare their sovereignty in front of their boyfriends. These series of small actions are all because of her lack of security. sense of security. Do men also have times when they feel insecure? What are the signs that a man is insecure?
1. Fear of losing feelings
In love, not only girls are afraid of losing, but boys are the same. As long as they are invested, they will have emotions. A man who is insecure in love cares about his girlfriend very much. In order to maintain a stable relationship, he will work crazy hard and respond to his girlfriend's requests. This kind of man has a thought in his heart: "I'm afraid that if I don't treat her well, she will leave me, so I can only continue to treat her twice as well." However, this is not the reason why your girlfriend did not leave you, because A love that is too tight can make people suffocate, a love that is too restrictive can make people want to escape. Moreover, if a girl chooses to be with a man just because he treats her well, then if there is another man who treats her better, does she have to go with him?
2. Relationships are full of negative emotions
Men who are insecure are pessimists in love. In their eyes, once there is a beginning, there will be an end, and the loved one will be lost. They would rather never have it than lose it in the end. Even if you start a relationship, you will prepare for the worst because of your lack of security. For example, if you tell them that a very small thing happened, they will take it as a sign of "Are you leaving me?" or "You don't love me anymore." If you always think about the worst, what defeats love in the end may not be a big conflict, but your own thinking. At the moment of possible loss, you will rationalize yourself, "I'm right, you just want to break up." Men who have such pessimistic thoughts about love will force girls away sooner or later.
3. Being suspicious and not trusting your girlfriend
Boys who are insecure will do one thing secretly : Check your girlfriend’s phone. Although they understand that this behavior is incorrect and that they should have more trust in their relationship, they cannot control this behavior. Boys can also be unreasonable and insecure in love, and they are more serious than girls. If a girlfriend has a close relationship with someone of the opposite sex, she will "threaten" her to block her or even delete her secretly. Girls will threaten to break up, but boys do the same. If you can't control your love for someone, you will crazily want to control your partner. He cares about her every move and thinks wildly about everything. He takes a hundred and eighty turns in his mind but can't get to the right path.
Men’s insecurity may seem ridiculous, but in fact it’s becauseBecause you care too much, you lose yourself. If you feel insecure in love, whether you are a man or a woman, it is recommended that you love yourself first before loving others. Instead of spending time thinking about things, you should build your own self-confidence. If you are so good, why would your boyfriend/girlfriend leave?
