Recently, while scrolling through social media, I came across a very interesting topic: What does it mean when a girl says "hmm"? This reminded me of my own naive yet beautiful memories from my first love. As someone who has been through it, I want to talk about first love today, especially offering some heartfelt advice to girls who are currently experiencing their first romance.

Speaking of the word "hmm," it truly is one of the most magical expressions a girl can use. I remember during my first love, when my boyfriend texted me "I missed you today," I replied with a simple "hmm." Inside, my heart was racing, but I was too shy to directly say "I missed you too." Later, he told me that seeing that "hmm" made him agonize for a long time, unsure if I was being shy or indifferent. You see, a simple "hmm" can hide a thousand words!

When it comes to first love, I truly understand the mix of anticipation and anxiety. As Wang Lili commented: "Classic, absolutely right! Unmarried girls should know this early, benefit early!" Indeed, understanding some truths early can save a lot of detours.

First, don"t let sweet talk cloud your judgment. I remember a friend of mine was in such a situation; a guy who said "I love you" every day but couldn't even remember her birthday. True love is shown through actions, like remembering your preferences and being there when you need them. These are the real manifestations of love.

Secondly, maintaining your sense of self is crucial. During first love, it"s easy to fall into the trap of "I'll become whatever he likes." But you need to know that someone who truly loves you, loves the real you. As my current boyfriend says, "I like you just the way you are, no need to change."

Another point I really want to emphasize is not to be too clingy. In first love, there"s a tendency to want to be together all the time, but actually, a little distance can make the relationship sweeter. My experience now is: maintain your own hobbies, give each other some space, and you'll have more to talk about when you meet.

Lastly, I want to say that first love is truly beautiful, but don"t idealize it too much. Love has its sweet moments and its trials; what's important is learning to love and be loved through the process. As the article says, first love is the foundation of love, but it doesn't have to be everything.

I hope these shares can help those of you going through your first love. Remember, love is important, but loving yourself is more important. May every girl stay clear-headed and find happiness in love!