Learn single chatting skills so that you can master the correct rhythm of chasing girls. When chatting with a girl, she will have a sharp increase in her favorability towards you. As your ability to flirt with girls improves, singles will naturally have no shortage of girlfriends.
1. Understand girls
As the saying goes: Know yourself and the enemy, and you will win every battle.
The same goes for chatting with a girl. You must first have a certain understanding of her.
If it is an online chat, you can make a preliminary judgment based on her avatar, nickname, signature and background combined with her age.
If it is a real date, you can learn the other party’s information through some simple questions.
You can ask the other party questions, but don’t ask them all the time. Just ask one or two.
Don’t ask others at the beginning whether they have a boyfriend, how much their salary is, and whether they have a car or a house?
Just ask some open-ended questions. The more private the question, the less likely it is.
2. Don’t just talk straightforwardly when chatting
During the chat, remember not to talk bluntly. Although boiled water is good, drinking too much will make you tired.
It is best to be a little emotional and have a slightly exaggerated emotional response to make the other party feel that chatting with you is quite emotional.
If you are chatting online, funny chat emoticons are a good auxiliary tool. You can pay more attention to collect some.
Remember to include some compliments when chatting with the other person.
For example, praise the other person’s appearance, character, character, hard work, hard work, seriousness and other excellent qualities.
3. Don’t be unreasonable when chatting
Remember this, don’t be unreasonable!
< p> When the other person is chatting with you, she just wants to relax and get along with you happily. She does not want you to teach her how to behave, nor does she want you to judge whether she is doing the right thing or wrong.Even if the other person is being unreasonable, you can still call them cute, naughty, or naughty.
Don’t be serious when chatting with girls. Just be more coaxing and teasing. If you are serious, you will be single.
4. Find the girl’s points of interest
During the single chat, pay attention to discovering the other party’s points of interest.
If you send a long article, but the other party only responds with "oh", "um", and "haha", then change the topic immediately. This topic is not within the scope of the other party's interest.
When you talk about a certain topic, and the other person can respond promptly and express her own opinions, then dig deeper on this topic. This is her point of interest.
Find some common topics on points of interest, and the two people will have more and more consensus.
5. Make her interested in exploring
Don’t tell everything at the beginning of the chat. On the one hand, others may not be interested in knowing. , on the other hand, you appear impatient and shallow.
People are often full of curiosity about unknown things. The better you hide it, the more interested the other party will be.
Hiding does not mean keeping something secret, but telling it selectively and with reservations to make the other party curious.
Of course, don’t hide it when it comes to whether you are single.
How far two people can go has been decided in the first chat.
If you make her curious like a colorful world, then your story will slowly unfold.