Girls are emotional creatures and are easily dominated by emotions. For example, if you were having a good conversation just now, and then suddenly say something very upset the next second, how should you reply to her at this time?
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When a girl tells you that she is upset, if you want to reply correctly, you must make a corresponding plan based on the stage she is in and the reason for saying this.
1. Pursuit stage
When you are in the pursuit stage and have not yet established a romantic relationship, how to deal with this situation? The situation requires extreme caution. The way you handle it will affect your attractiveness in the eyes of girls, and even if you handle it improperly, it may become an "emotional trash can".
1) "I'm annoyed" caused by you
Many boys like to be clingy, frequently chatting with girls without the right method, and keep chatting awkwardly without feeling comfortable. Know. You think you are caring about the other person, but in fact, awkward chatting without nutrition will only bore girls.
Let me ask, which girl wouldn’t feel “I’m annoyed” during such a chat? There’s nothing wrong with you wanting to chat with the girl you like. But relationships are about mutual consent. If you don't have the ability to attract the other person, it's impossible to just rely on your own "care" and "sincerity" to make a girl fall in love with you.
If this is the case for you, this girl has been screwed by you. What you need most now is not to find a "magic bullet" that can bring you back to life, but to stop your losses immediately. What you need is the correct way to chase girls, master the indicators of identifying girls’ interests, and master the correct methods to upgrade your relationship with girls.
2) "I am annoyed" that is not caused by you
I just said that girls are emotionally Right and left, emotions have a huge influence on them. Various inducements in life may cause "it's annoying to go". It may be that you squeezed the bus in the morning and was stepped on, it may be that you were looked at a few times by the security guard when you went upstairs, it may be that your copywriting was not up to standard and you were scolded by your boss, it may be that I bought a new skirt and matched it with a stranger, etc. When chasing girls, we can only be "ourselves" and the remaining uncontrollable factors are beyond our scope of consideration.
When a girl is in a bad mood, it is not appropriate to chat with her. On the one hand, if she vents her bitter words to you, she will gradually form an inertia, always dumping negative energy on you, and when she is in a good mood, she will go to chat with others, and you will become an emotional trash can. On the other hand, the most suitable time to make a girl "feel" is when both parties are relaxed and happy. It is not beneficial for you to chat with her at this time, and it may also become a vent in the eyes of the other party.
2. Couple stage
How to deal with the couple stage andThe pursuit stage is very different. The pursuit stage focuses on "whether it is beneficial for you to upgrade the relationship." The couple stage focuses on whether there are conflicts or emotions that need to be resolved in time to ensure the stability of the long-term relationship.
1) "I'm annoyed" caused by you
When a girl says "I'm annoyed" to you, if it's in a coquettish or petty tone, and No, it's not a big problem. At this time, you just need to "tease her" in time and stimulate her good mood.
For example, a girl says, “Huh, I’m very annoyed.” You can change the topic and jokingly reply, "Ha, why are you still trying to be like a pig?"
When a girl says "I'm annoyed", if she says it in a very calm manner and still keeps a cold war with you for a long time, then you need to be careful. At this time, it is said that the girl has feelings for you and your behavior has caused her dissatisfaction. This kind of emotion will continue to accumulate in girls, and if you don't take the initiative to resolve it, it will be a terrible thing to wait until it finally breaks out again, and your relationship may be terminated as a result. Therefore, when encountering this kind of situation, you must resolve it in time and be honest with the other party about your thoughts. If you have done something wrong, you must let the other party feel your determination to change.
2) "I am annoyed" that is not caused by you
A girl says to you "I am annoyed" ” time, and it’s not your fault. You can try to ask the other person why she is annoyed. If there is a direct cause for her annoyance, for example, she was scolded by her boss. At this time, you must tell the girl, for example, if the girl says that the leader is hateful, what you want to say is more hateful than what she says, and slowly resolve her upset.
If there is no direct reason for a girl’s “annoyance” or she is unwilling to talk about it, the best reply at this time is not to reply, stop disturbing her, and let her quiet down.
