The ultimate goal of chatting with a girl is an invitation. However, if you want a girl to agree to your invitation, the prerequisite is to establish attraction. So how can you make chatting with a girl more attractive?

1. Show your own humor

Humor is an essential skill for chasing girls. For example, you can use some Recently popular words to reply to girls can make girls subconsciously think that we are humorous and interesting men, which will make girls more interested in you and want to know you more. At the same time, it can also show that we understand the current trends, keep up with the times, and have a common language.

For example

Male: I want to go to Xiaolongkan to eat hot pot, but I have to hold back.

Female: How can you bear it!

Male: It’s too difficult for me. I have been running and exercising recently to fulfill my dream of eight-pack abs.

Or when a girl rejects you, you can say: The boat of friendship can be flipped over at any time + emoticons are all popular words on the Internet. They are very useful chat tips for showing your humor in early stage chats. .

2. Show your own value

There are two ways to show your value

( 1) Display directly through topics

This method is more suitable for showing your hard value, such as "wealth, body, craftsmanship" When displaying in this way, it should be noted that the value must be a relatively low value, or a less exaggerated value. An excessively high value will appear to be a deliberate pretense and turn into a show off.

For example: when talking about delicious food and cooking, if you have value in this aspect, you can directly send photos of food you cook, which is a good way to directly show your craftsmanship. Then he said: I newly researched last night, how does it look? And more importantly, such a display can also make girls realize subconsciously that we may be a family-oriented person and a caring and warm man.

　(2) Display through the side of the topic

This method is more suitable for showing one's soft values, such as "pursuit, taste, and ambition"< /p>

When displayed in a side view, girls can consciously feel that we are a "high-quality" man.

For example: when ending the chat, we can say: Let’s not chat for now. The leader has arranged some tasks for me. I have to do them, otherwise I won’t worry. I’ll contact you when you have time~

From a side perspective, we can show that we are a man who is motivated and enterprising. Such soft value is very important for women when choosing a mate, and it is also a bonus!

Another example:

Through the identity of "friend", we can show that we are a man with taste, a high-quality social circle, and a willingness to learn. For example, when talking about eating delicious food or cooking delicious food, you can say: I learned this skill from a friend of mine. He knows a lot. Through the side perspective of "friend", you can make girls feel We have the above qualities. Secondly, this is also a good topic trend.

Because friends involve "people around us", they may then talk about her friends, or even about her childhood, or even about her ex's relationship topics in her previous love life, making the topic further. Go deeper.

Some brothers may still be worried about "I don't have any topics." In fact, the problem is not that you have no topics, the problem is that you have no ideas and have not enriched your life, resulting in limited topics. Only when we understand the idea of ??chatting and the value of display, will we successfully transform the confusion of "Why are we chatting like this" and "I have no topic" into a kind of chatting with "It is better to chat like this" during chatting with girls. Ability is the correct way to build attraction.